What drives someone to be attracted to a certain type of
person?
Is having sex with a bigger person okay, but being with them
on a long term official basis not okay?
In my single days, granted I was a drunken partying mess,
I had my share of fairly attractive men. I've always had a feeling that maybe
it was never more because: a) I was a hot, drunk mess or b) I wasn't skinny. I
am pretty though. I’m not morbidly obese. I’m shapely. I have curves. My hour
glass figure is there; perhaps it isn't as small as other hour glass figures,
but it’s apparent. You’re not finding it hidden under mass rolls of fat. While
I may not be the most confident person when it comes to my body; I know that I
am more than my body. My face is a face of an angel. Haha.
My weight fluctuates. My face never changes. My personality
never changes.
I've dated various colors, shapes, and sizes as well. I don’t
have a “TYPE.” I’m attracted to what I’m attracted to. I've never dated someone
strictly based on their physical appearance. Personality is far more important
to me than that. I've had extremely attractive people talk to me and immediately
dismissed them based on their douche-fuck personality.
Does someone’s own insecurity in what society might think about
their choice of a larger person as a partner influence this decision? I think I’ll
ask my Human Sexuality teacher if I can change my paper to this topic.
I’m interested in what drives people to do these things. Is
it specific to the male gender? Are men still so cave men like that they are
incapable of grasping their own insecurities to pursue what they really want? Or are females small-minded as well?
This is my random thought. Perhaps I should survey said
attractive guys and ask what the reason is…
Back to my homework.
